The Castration of Man

I have one point to this blog which will be explored in both the general and personal sense. My point is that men are weak.

I'll start with a question: "what is the role of a man?" In my oppinion it is to lead. Men should be loving and caring to women and children and should set an example for younger men. My main gripe with men is they fail to love and respect women. My case is based around the rather simple example of the random hook-up.

When a guy hooks up with a young lady to whom he is not attached he has done wrong. He is gratifying his own selfish physical desires. He is treating the girl as a means to an end: "she can satisfy me." Rather than an end in herself. He is treating her as a tool, a thing rather than a person. The random hook up is just so wrong, it dehumanises women.

The obvious counter arguement is: "what if both parties are just up for some fun?" To this I would say that men have therefore led women to view themselves as a tool as well.

Men value themselves on their possessions. Whether these are achievements, a girl-friend, trophies or whatever. Women value themselves on how they are seen by men. Their self-worth is based on how men see them. So why can't we just be selfless and put them before ourselves? Love and respect them; it's our duty and privilege.

Now onto the personal side of things. I am dodgey with chicks.

I am a christian, so sex is out of the question (all forms of sex) and making out and what-not is kinda shameful in christian circles so I avoid it as best I can. However I do like the allusion of closeness and intimacy; so I recreate it as best I can. This usually takes the form of close female relationships, which inevitably includes hanging out together one-on-one.

Anyone with half a brain would call these outings dates, but not me. I prefer to call them "spending time" but while I might not have any designs set on anything more than friendship I am still courting these women. Why? 'cause I'm dodgey.

In my defence I am unashamedly honest about where all parties stand. I'll tell a girl straight up that I don't want more than friendship, which is kind of a wanker-ish thing to do, but I figure it's better than leading them on completely, (even though by taking them out I am still leading them on). But at the end of the day girls will read into anything and that's why what I do is unfair on them.

At the end of the day girls want time and effort. If you give them time and effort they will like you. It's a dangerous thing to realise and too many men abuse the good nature of women, myself included.

The conculsion I've come to is this: seedy men upset me. Men in general upset me. When did we become so weak? Has society castrated us? We are feeble shades, struggling to lead ourselves let alone others. Men seem either to be over-sexed dickheads, moronic and lame. Or weak-voiced, uner-socialised timid men with no back-bone. I'm sick of it. Give me strong men, with integrity and grit, self-determined and loving. Not some self-seeking precocious twat who lives in a bubble.